A CULTURE SHOCK TO THE SYSTEM
Many people would love to leave their nine-to-five jobs behind and have a life-changing adventure overseas. They imagine lying under palm trees as the sun goes down. However, life overseas is not always easy, and many are not prepared for the shock of living in an alien culture.
At first, for those who actually decide to move abroad, life is an exciting adventure. With their new-found freedom, they enjoy exploring their new surroundings, and life seems like an extended holiday. They don't mind sampling the local cuisine and discovering other aspects of the local culture. They can even afford to practise their foreign-language skills without fear of making mistakes.
In many cases, when people consider moving to another country, they often fail to realize how different life overseas will be. They experience feelings of frustration when language and cultural misunderstandings become a daily headache. In this stage, many people refuse to accept the differences of their host country and some actually choose to avoid spending time with local people in favour of mixing with others from their home country.
Gradually, over time, the visitor realizes they must accept the differences and not fight against them. This change in mentality encourages them to improve their language skills and slowly they manage to do the things we would do without thinking at home such as opening a bank account. This new-found confidence enables them to see a side of life which very few tourists are lucky enough to witness.
Culture shock is a real issue. The secret is to stop trying to change your host country; you will not succeed. If not, you risk losing your dream and having to return to the old life you wanted to leave behind.